We all face challenges in life, sometimes we go through similar difficulties, the reason why we do not get affected in a similar way is because some of us choose to be better in that situation, others choose to be bitter.
Those who choose to be better learn to be strong and they overcome the challenge.
Those who choose to be bitter learn nothing and they stay bitter and never move forward with life.
You need to understand that Circumstances are there to shape you, mold you, bring a testimony out of you and prepare you for the great success God has for you, if you choose to be bitter you will never understand this umdali abe nani